Hello, My Beautiful Soul Friend.
Today I want to share a tantric transmission that has supported me — and many women I guide — in navigating relationships and activating our creative, sexual life through conscious awareness.
One of the sacred tantric principles is this:
As above, so below.
What does this mean in the context of love, relationship, and sexuality?
It means that the way we relate in the heavens — through energy, through intention, through vibration — is exactly what manifests in the earth, in our bodies, in our partnerships.
Our relationship is not just between two people. It is a living dance between all our inner systems — our thoughts, our feelings, our beliefs, our past, our presence, our soul. Every part is in communication.
When we focus on higher frequencies like love, gratitude, creativity, and sacred desire — these begin to shape our external life, our intimacy, and our relationships.
But this is not about “positive vibes only.” Tantra is never about denial.
It’s about wholeness.
Every part of you has its time and place to participate. And to truly “go below” — into body, into sensuality, into the fire of intimacy — we must cultivate great light in the heart,so we don’t get lost in the process of the process.
This is how we consciously receive the benefits of our shadow.
The Blue-Dark Fire: Wisdom of the Shadow
Imagine for a moment that your shadow — the hidden, the painful, the triggered parts of you — is not a mistake. It is the blue-dark fire that feeds all other flames.
Every pain, emotion, thought, or sensation is not random. It’s a communication.
It’s your body and soul whispering: “There’s something to listen to here.”
If we slow down enough to speak with that place —
…we might remember where it first appeared.
…we might see how it has shown up in our patterns.
…we might understand how it tried to protect us.
And from this soft, open, loving awareness — not the mind, but the heart — we can return this part to the Source.
We don’t fight it. We free it.
And this is where everything shifts. Not only how you feel…
But how you behave.
How you relate.
How you live.
Ancient Preparation for Sacred Love
In ancient teachings, it’s said that we should be pure for 8 hours before making love with our beloved.
Why?
Because love-making is a ceremony. A transmission. A portal. And to meet our partner fully — with presence, trust, and truth — we must purify any stuck energies, listen to ourselves, and speak them out with love.
This builds an unshakable trust. In ourselves. In our bodies. In our relationships.
The Practice: A 5-Minute Tantric Reset
You don’t need candles. You don’t need rituals. You just need willingness.
Here’s how to do it:
Tune in. Find the place in your body that holds tension or discomfort.
Communicate. Ask it gently: What are you holding? What are you trying to protect?
Witness. See the core of this part. Where did it first appear? What belief does it carry?
Return to Source. Offer it back with love. Imagine the light of Source cleansing it.
Refill. Call in new energy. What’s the new belief? New feeling? New behavior?
Act. Begin to move, speak, and live from this new vibration — let the universe witness you.
And remember:
The universe will test you 3 times.
Not to punish you — but to check: Did you learn the lesson?
When you act from your new self, you take one step closer to your greatest soul achievement. This is the spiritual hygiene that keeps your sexual and creative energy clean, strong, and aligned.
Coaching Invitation
If this practice touches you — and you know you’re ready to go deeper — I am here.
I offer 1:1 coaching sessions where we move through these layers together: heart, body, sexuality, and soul.
- One session is $200
- Package of 3 sessions: only $300
To book a free discovery call and receive the payment link, reach out to me directly here.
Beloved,
Your body is sacred.
Your love life is divine.
And your shadow is not in the way — it is the way.
With grace,
Giavanna
Tantrica, Muse, and Life Love Coach
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